Why you should go anyway to Tokyo, Japan

Hate crowds? Scared of tuna? Don’t know Japanese? Insert your random excuse not to go to Japan here. Now forget all of this because your brain is full of shit. I know mine was.

Whatever is holding you back from visiting Japan, I assure you it’s a lame excuse. My excuses were both lame and wrong. For example, I hated the idea of getting stuck in large crowds of people. Cut to me getting led out of the train station by a smirking train assistant who rolled my suitcase in front of me, said, “Welcome to Japan!” and then went back to his post. Here’s where I was:

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This is Shibuya Crossing, arguably one of the busiest intersections IN THE WORLD. There I was, just me with my suitcase and no idea which direction my hotel was.

I was a bit too ready to wet my pants so I forgot to take my own picture, but trust me when I tell you that the crowd really was like that. Although I sit much lower so my perspective was mostly upwards from people’s waists. I did see the comforting Starbucks logo across the street, which oddly made things feel familiar.

Even in that moment of craziness, however, I FELT AWESOME! People were moving all about then all stopping to let traffic pass. Tourists were taking pics and parents were dragging their kids though the lights and people like rag dolls. But nobody was bumping into anyone else as there seemed to be a mutual respect for each other and an understanding that if I get out of your way, you’ll get out of mine. The best way to describe the sound is that it was like a muffled NYC rush hour — more of a constant rumbling of people noises than of cars or horns.

I was able to find a place to pause for a moment and take it all in. Then I got out my phone, looked up the direction of my hotel, and headed on my way.

Within a few blocks of Shibuya station, it was quiet, calm, and very few people were on the street. It was amazing how the density and noise level changed so quickly. I hadn’t been really stressed at all during this, but it was nice to have an open sidewalk to cruise along.

And that’s my takeaway for anyone who ever asks me about Tokyo — busy in places, yes. But you’re never more than a few blocks from peace and quiet. Also, the people are so nice! The food is so fresh! And there are a ton of green spaces and shrines spread throughout the city that you are never more than a few blocks from a place to sit and relax.

Here are some more posts with my notes from this amazing trip. Of course they’re geared towards wheelchair users but will work for anyone!

Now get off your butt and go already! No excuses!

Delta vs. United for Wheelchair Users

I’ve flown these two airlines the most in the last three years and wanted to post a comparison of my experiences with these airlines and how I’ve been handled as a wheelchair user. Of course by “I” I mean me as a passenger and my wheelchair as my cargo.

Delta Airlines

Checking in

In the last two years, I’ve noticed a large improvement in Delta’s process for dealing with me and my chair when I fly. The majority of the time I don’t feel like I am the first person in a chair to ever fly Delta. The check-in agents seem better versed in what to do, they don’t seem as perplexed by power chairs as they used to, and I feel like there’s more communication with the cargo and gate teams than there were in previous years. You will also get a more permanent “wheelchair tag” — a pink delta baggage tag that you can keep on your chair after you fly to use again on your return flight or future flights. This saves from having to ask for a tag every time.

Grade: A

Gate Experience

Sometimes the agent from the ticket counter ends up working the gate, at least at airports where Delta has a smaller presence. There’s a bit more attention and understanding when this is the case, but overall the gate agents for Delta seem more on top of things than they have been in the past. At larger airports, I’ve also noticed an increased presence of some type of “coordinating” employee who seems to be focused on the process of boarding me and taking my chair to cargo.

Grade: A-

Wheelchair Handling

This is a tossup for any airline. In general, I’m disappointed with all airlines in this department. It could be a lot better across the board. I have had a few damage incidents that didn’t make me happy and there was one time when the cargo team came on board to tell me they couldn’t fit my chair through the door without turning it on its side. At least they paid attention to my printed instructions I leave with my chair. Whether or not I get my chair at the gate is an issue of airport convenience. I seem to get it at the aircraft for domestic flights way more often than international ones.

Grade: D

Passenger Handling

This varies from airport to airport as Delta will contract with various companies to provide assistance in the terminals and with boarding/disembarking. For the most part, I have few complaints about the companies Delta uses for this. At NYC-Laguardia, however, I have been disappointed by the strength of the assistance staff. They have a really hard time moving me from chair to chair and seem to be poorly trained on lifts.

Grade: B

Overall Remarks

Delta seems to be focusing on making the process of flying with a disability easier. I get feedback requests every time I fly now and make sure to tell them what goes right/wrong every time.

Overall Grade: B

United Airlines

Checking In

Checking-in for my last two United flights made me nervous. I felt like I was the first one to ever fly them with a chair, which I know isn’t true since I’ve flown United myself before with a chair. But whenever the check-in agent makes a few phone calls and asks me repeatedly about what kind of battery I have and doesn’t assume I want to remain in my chair to the aircraft door, I get irritated. And I don’t know if it’s been bad luck or common that United employees don’t seem that happy. United does have an accessible seating request form which has proved useful. Don’t expect a first class upgrade because your butt is sensitive, but you can arrange for bulkhead or extra legroom.

Grade: C-

Gate Experience

I’ve had mixed experiences here with United, but most recently I was happy with the attention I got at the gate. In the past I’ve had to respond again to the same questions about my chair (weight, battery-type, etc) after just having done so at the check-in counter. Now United hangs this tag on the chair which details most of the necessary info. I haven’t noticed a special “coordinator” for boarding me like Delta seems to have.

Grade: B

Wheelchair Handling

I’ve had decent luck with United not breaking my chair (yet) but I have noticed longer wait times upon arrival to get my chair back, and less frequently is my chair brought to the aircraft door than on Delta.

Grade: C-

Passenger Handling

I’m not thrilled with United’s coverage of this area, particularly at Chicago O’Hare. In the International terminal, the staff is pretty much the same as Delta’s. But in the United terminals, I’ve had mixed-to-poor results with the assistance getting me on and off the planes. Even if I have requested 3 or 4 people to lift and transfer me, nobody can seem to get it right. I have been improperly lifted the last four segments I’ve flown on United and I feel like I’m training them every time this happens.

Grade: D

Overall Remarks

I’ll fly United if the prices is right. In my experience, I’ve been lucky with my chair not being damaged, but the overall experience as a disabled passenger on United is something that needs improvement.

Overall Grade: C

Chicago to Tokyo on ANA

I had the opportunity to switch to an earlier flight on ANA instead of United and jumped at the chance. Last time I flew United to Hawaii they served us mac and cheese in first class so it was a no-brainer.

Overall I was really happy with the service and the attention I received, particularly when it came to boarding me and handling my wheelchair.

The flight attendants were super helpful during the flight making sure I was comfortable and they also hung around to chat while we waited for some additional assistance to arrive in Tokyo to get me off the plane.

I didn’t specify it would take more than one person to help me transfer off the plane, so one elderly gentleman showed up. If enthusiasm could lift me from my seat, he would have done it no problem. After a short wait, five more guys showed up and it was no problem!

I’d fly ANA again for sure. The food was tasty and the seats were comfortable too.

The scoop about Miami

I took one of my very helpful aunts to Miami (March 2019) because we couldn’t wait for winter to be over. Luckily we also found a great cruise price for a weekend overnight cruise to the Bahamas on Carnival.

Miami Summary

  • There’s downtown Miami and Miami Beach (North/Mid/South) and the beach is much less Miami Vice and GTA than you’d expect.
  • Beach hotels are consistently more expensive than most places I travel. Staying by the airport / downtown can save money
  • You can get day passes for beach hotels and pools.
  • Great people watching
  • Easy public transit from the airport station via the MIA Mover and Beach Express bus.

The Flight to/from Miami

I used some Delta frequent flyer miles for our tickets and we flew from Milwaukee to Atlanta to Miami on the way there, and via NYC-Laguardia on the way home.

Unfortunately the assistants struggled getting the aisle wheelchair actually down the aisle on the MD-90 plane from MKE to ATL. It’s a single-aisle plane but the transition from First class to economy is at an angle and the chair was too long. I got upgraded to First but bumped someone from their seat.

I had some chair damage on these flights but was able to complete the cruise without an issue, just an inconvenience. On the way home, my armrest fell off.

Miami Transportation

There are accessible taxis in Miami and if you find one, get the driver’s number. They will usually be happy to come and get you and this saves waiting time if they are available directly.

I don’t like the taxis as a primary mode of transportation in Miami however. The accessible ones are few and far between. They’re also expensive.

From the airport you can get to the beaches with the Beach Express bus for a few bucks. Read more here about cruise shuttles and arrival strategies for Miami.

Miami Hotels

On this trip we stayed at the Sheraton Miami Airport before the cruise and the Kimpton Surfcomber after.

  • Sheraton Miami Airport – We got a club level room and the club was fantastic. It’s on the top floor and had very nice staff and a wonderful view of the golf course. Breakfast and afternoon snacks were included. It’s across the street from the airport transit station which gets you right to the terminals and also the beach buses.
  • Kimpton Surfcomber – Located on the beach in South Beach, this was a nice boutique-style hotel with an art deco flare. The location was great for catching the Miami boardwalk and there were a lot of dining and shopping options nearby, including Lincoln Rd.

The Stuff to do in Miami

This was my second time in Miami and my first time leaving on a cruise from there. If you’ve been to Orlando or northern Florida, you’ll be surprised at how blue the water is in Miami compared to there. This time around I rolled up and down the beach, we ate, and hung out at South Pointe Park. We also checked out all the huge yachts and just enjoyed watching all the spring breakers.

I had planned to go to the Miami Open tennis tournament but decided to hang out at the beach that day instead since my favorite players weren’t playing.

I also ordered delivery from La Sandwicherie which has the most amazing croissant sandwiches. Make sure you get the secret sauce!

Or course, you can board your cruises at the port and head to the Caribbean. I really enjoy Miami as a cruise departure city because there is a lot to do.

My Miami Memories

The spring breakers were fun to watch. Packs of three or four girls or guys wandering around, trying to look all fancy in their skimpy swimsuits was highly entertaining.

The dumb paper straws at the Starbucks down there like to disintegrate into the drink and then stop working completely.

We saw Mark Zuckerberg’s yacht in the harbor when we got on our cruise ship. He probably doesn’t need any more money.

Why You Should Go to Miami Anyway

If you want to see some tropical-looking water without leaving the contiguous 48 states but also feel like you’re in the midst of everything, this is your place. There is a lot of eye candy from the people to the buildings to the beach. It’s easy to enjoy a relaxing time, but it is a little pricey here. The new transit options from the airport make getting to the beach much easier and less expensive.

Quickly explore Miami Beach and South Beach with your wheelchair

A bicyclist rides down a paved path with palm trees.
This path goes for several miles along the beach and makes for fast access up and down South Beach.

All up and down the Miami Beach and South Beach areas is an exceptional paved path and boardwalk. Consider it your “wheelchair highway” while you are visiting Miami.

During my most recent visit (March 2019) I made sure I would cut over to the beach pathway every time I needed to move north or south along the beaches. There are no stop signs, no lights, and it’s not overloaded with people.

I used the path to get from the hotel to South Pointe Park and back in much less time than taking the roads. Of course if you haven’t gotten to see the art deco hotels and things along the street, you’re going to want to do that first!

The path felt safe even at night as it is well-lit and people meander along it at all times.

I highlighted the area in yellow on the map. I’ve taken it as far north as Indian Beach park where I believe it stops.

If you have to go anywhere along the beach or adjacent streets, the pathways are void of stop signs and lights and you can get there quickly in a power chair!