The most comfortable and amazing travel shoes

I was sitting next to an app developer on a flight from Chicago to Amsterdam and he had on these green, knit-looking shoes that looked really comfortable so I asked him about it. In his Dutch accent he said what I thought was, “Abbot’s.” Cut to me searching the internet for Abbot shoes that looked like his to no avail. But then I found them. They’re called Allbirds!

Allbirds

I had heard about Merino wool and since I don’t wear socks (too hard to put on), I figured the smell-resistant feature of the Merino Allbirds would be a huge plus. But the minute I put my foot in one, it was like the most comfortable slipper I’d ever worn.

I’ve had one pair now for a year and there are only slightly visible signs of wear. Of course as a wheelchair user, that’s expected but I don’t use footrests so they’re always banging up against my wheels. Sure they get some dirt on them but they wipe off clean and can be washed easily.

I highly recommend this shoe if you want to be comfortable on a flight.

Bars, beds, and recliners on planes. Yes! Wheelchairs? Uh…too difficult.

It is amazing what the airlines are coming up with for luxury travelers. In the pics above, Ethiad, JAL, and Singapore airlines highlight their first class sections and premium suites. Look at that bar with all the space around it! Check out that couch! And that bed and recliner combo in that last suite. AMAZING!

Innovation is at top speed at these airlines and the airplane companies that supply their fleets. It has even been floated that sleeper suites could one day be available in modular cargo hold pods. How incredible would that be?

Whoah, woah, woah, back it up. Can we get wheelchairs on planes first before the next round of luxury suite development?

While many airlines are busy improving their first class service (I’m not even sure how I’d be lifted/transferred into some of these suite designs), wheelchair users are left behind. In a world where all of the above designs are not only possible, but in production, wheelchair users board planes like this because we cannot remain in our wheelchairs.

How archaic does this look? Some of the wheelchairs that people are put on to be brought onto planes are decades old. There are sometimes as many as six straps (one for each attorney who has ever sued an airline when someone fell out, I’m sure). Often wheelchair users have to be lifted by improperly-trained teenagers. Other times it’s by people not in shape enough to handle the lift.

Nothing is more ridiculous than being lifted to an aisle chair, strapped in with six straps, then rolled ten feet to my seat only to do the process in reverse. It takes time, it is awkward, and often other passengers have nothing better to do than watch (even though airlines try to board wheelchair users first).

Not just that, but wheelchairs are broken at a rate of 25 per day, according to 2019 FAA reports. Could you imagine if 25 pairs of passenger legs were broken every day? And don’t even get me started about passengers with disabilities who are injured because of lifts and transfers.

There are small organizations trying to move forward with wheelchairs on planes, such as the All Wheels Up organization. In accordance with recent legislation, AWU has raised money and performed safety testing on wheelchair restraints on airplanes.

It would be nice, however, if airlines or airplane manufacturers could lead on this issue. Of course it’s a matter of money. Of course it’s also matter of there being no requirements for this. It’s an example where capitalism needs improvement.

Airlines don’t seem to understand that flying is often the only time a wheelchair user is more than a few feet from their wheelchair — EVER. It’s taken under the plane to cargo and brought up after landing. Sometimes it’s brought to the airplane door (as it’s supposed to in the USA) but other times it’s brought to baggage. Sometimes it’s not brought at all (I had a chair left in Sweden once by the airline).

I know safety needs to be evaluated so all passengers remain safe if chairs are on planes. But let’s face it, if passengers can accept that the beverage cart (which weighs 300 pounds fully loaded) can roll freely down the aisle, then they can accept a 100-200 pound wheelchair (usually less) which is strapped down for the duration of the flight.

Think about how passengers are belted in. A 200 pound passenger is belted into a seat with a standard airplane seatbelt. You’re telling me a four-point tie down or locking system isn’t going to be sufficiently safe for a 100 pound wheelchair?

But come on. If you can figure out a way to create an entire industry of flying metal birds with luxury suites the size of a small home bathroom, then certainly you can innovate a way to allow wheelchair users who want to fly in their own chairs be able to, without losing money.

In the meantime, I continue to fly as much as I want. I have backup chairs at home in case one breaks. I file complaints when something goes wrong. I get my chairs fixed by airlines when they’re broken and I get vouchers and gift cards when they damage my chair. It’s frustrating to have to handle it when it comes up but I’m not going to stop flying because of it and I’m not going to feel bad when an airline has to shell out a few thousand dollars to fix a chair they broke.

I also mention to flight attendants, pilots, and ground staff that one day maybe we’ll be able to fly in our chairs and save everyone time getting on and off the planes. I have never been met with anything but support from airline employees. Even the ones who are tasked with apologizing to me will lament the fact that chairs aren’t allowed on planes yet.

I go anyway and I encourage you to go anyway too. Even though many chairs are broken each day, many more do make it safely. In my experience, I’ve had only a handful of mishaps over dozens and dozens of flight segments. If you are nervous about your primary chair, find a cheap backup on Craigslist or eBay that you can use and survive in for the duration of your trip. You could also rent one in your final destination.

Hopefully one day I’ll be able to roll down the jetway and get onto a plane the same way I can roll onto any accessible train. Nobody will have to lift me and nobody will have to touch my chair except to put on the restraints.

But at the current rate, I will probably get space for my chair on a SpaceX flight to Mars before I can stay in my chair on a flight from Chicago to Europe.

The Singapore Metro for wheelchair users

I was able to take the metro from my hotel station to the botanical gardens and back — no problem!

I mentioned in my summary of a weekend in Singapore that the metro was one of the best I’d ever used. It’s true. It was empowering and great. Here’s some info.

There is virtually zero gap

I rode the metro for probably thirty journeys and only one time was the gap psychologically challenging, but I zipped over it anyway and it was fine. Here’s a video of the typical gap.

This is a very typical gap I traversed frequently with my power chair. No problem!

The routes are few & easy

There are boards with maps and stops in every modern station. After a few rides, you will know which direction you need to go if you memorize the endpoints. If you go the wrong way, just get off at any station and go to the other platform and go the other direction.

There’s a station at the airport

The metro doesn’t run late or very early in the morning, but if you’re looking for a cheap option for getting from the airport, there is a station right there. You can buy the Singapore Visitor pass for the metro after you enter the station and use it throughout your trip.

Follow the tactile paths

Although the target audience for these are the blind and visually impaired these come in handy as a sort of “Silver Brick Road” for wheelchair users too. There are tactile paths from the entrances to the elevators to the platforms, so you can follow those and make your station visit even easier.

If you need help at any time, just about every station has an attendant or guard who will help you.

Accessible options for getting from Milwaukee to Chicago O’Hare airport

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I live in Wisconsin but am taking a flight from Chicago O’Hare to Tokyo this weekend. Getting to O’Hare from Milwaukee is an inconvenient puzzle.

  • Driving is fine but O’Hare daily parking is expensive ($10/day for Economy G but you have to take a bus then the tram. $17/day for Economy E if you want to hop the tram. Tram is super easy and the bus from G is accessible, but still it’s pricey for a week!
  • Wisconsin Coach has a bus but it takes over 2 hours and you have to pre-arrange an accessible bus. If your flight is delayed on the way home, you might be stuck without a return trip if the accessible bus leaves. Costs $32 each way.
  • Uber has accessible rides FROM O’Hare to Milwaukee (around $120-150) but not to O’Hare from Milwaukee.
  • Amtrak ($25 one way to Chicago) has Hiawatha trains from downtown Milwaukee to Glenview or Union Station, but you’ll have to hop an accessible Uber, CTA train (station change) or Metra (with connection) to get to O’Hare.
  • There is a Hilton right at the airport, which can be a life saver if you get in late. Then you can check in and worry about getting home the next day. I’ve planned on doing this twice but then decide to take an Uber late and sleep in my own bed. Don’t rely on accessible Ubers, however. I’ve been lucky twice with this plan but I’m sure one of these times no accessible Uber will be available.

The only perfect solution is to have someone drive me in my own van, but ain’t nobody want to drive 3+ hours round trip TWICE to pick my ass up, so forget it. I don’t even like driving myself down there!

This time around I am trying the Amtrak / CTA route since the weather will be ok. I will probably go down there the day before and get a last minute hotel deal. This will take the pressure off on Saturday when my flight is.

There is no perfect time to go, so go.

You can wait for the perfect season, the perfect weather, the perfect discount, the perfect hotel, the perfect work schedule, school schedule, church schedule, and home schedule. Then you’ll wait and wait and wait and wait and not get to this beach in Waikiki.

Accepting that there is no perfect time to travel is the first and most important step to taking a trip. If it’s not one thing that gets in the way it’s another. A lot of those “things” are totally fictional — made up by your brain. They don’t even exist!

For example, I bought a sofa sleeper because I imagined I would have these overnight guests in my house when I moved in. I’ve had two in the last twelve years. TWO. I could have put those people up in a $300 a night hotel for the extra amount of money I spent on that couch!

I bought my furniture around the idea that I’d have friends and family visiting all the time. Stupidly, it didn’t occur to me that my family lives mostly in the city where I live and my friends live in way more glamorous places, so I go visit them. So I have this huge couch in my small living room and it’s all scratched up because I run into it with my wheelchair all the time.

Making decisions based on future scenarios that don’t even exist can be prudent sometimes, but when it comes to travel, forget it. There will ALWAYS be something you won’t be able to attend or do at home when you are out of town. Do you really want to skip a trip to Europe because your kid might have a soccer game that weekend — NEXT YEAR?

There will never be a perfect time at work, at school, at home, at church. Why? Because it’s impossible to predict the future and virtually impossible that the numerous schedules you have will all line up.

I remember when I was in fifth grade, I threw a violent fit about going up to Northern Wisconsin the first weekend in September because “Jon’s sleepover party will be that weekend. It ALWAYS is that weekend! (It had been that weekend for two consecutive years.)

I got my way and we never went up North that fall. Jon never had his party either, so I didn’t go anywhere.

The reality of you going on a trip has a 100% possibility if you decide to do it and put in on your calendar. It has a 0% possibility if everything else goes on the calendar first. Take the first step, and start planning now!